Dating emotionally unavailable men: how to beat them in their own game

Many of my clients are dealing with men who are hot and cold, who give contradictory messages, that throw bones from time to time enough to keep them at bay, but the relationship does not really progress or reach anywhere.

It is very heartbreaking to deal with an emotionally unavailable man. You never know where you stand or how it really feels for you. If he really isn't emotionally available or just doesn't interest you.

Whatever the reason, it is not advisable to take these men seriously. The problem is that the relationship is often too good to leave but too bad to stay. You are trapped. Either way you feel the pain. If you are a woman who hopes to get married and start a family shortly before her reproductive years cease, this can be very damaging.

You are desperate You are confused. You are exhausted and resentful.

Sounds familiar?

The emotional unavailability is real. Many men at some time or another, sometimes for no particular reason, are going through this stage. When they are in this mode, there is very little you can do to change their mentality. Words will definitely not. They have to process their own feelings until they leave that state for themselves.

As a woman, it is important to detect this early enough before you become too attached to think clearly and do the right thing. Unfortunately, for most women in their 30s and 40s who are still single or have just come out of a divorce or long-term relationship, they encounter this species and go out with them, and often fall in love with them, it is inevitable. There are so many of these men out there.

They will often tell you from the beginning that they are not looking for anything serious, but they show an intense taste for you and because they are so lovely that these women are falling in love with them after a while.

Some of them will chase you hard but then they will walk away as soon as the conquest is complete.

Some will even offer exclusivity or accept in the blink of an eye, but it is obvious that their heart is not in that. He will continue to sneak out or talk to other women and even contact women at dating sites.

Some of them are simply happy to have a stable relationship that, apart from the speed of total commitment, whatever it means to the women involved, is never fast enough.

Whatever the form, it is not fun to be chained.

However, many women think that avoiding these men altogether will help protect their heart from pain, which is true for the most part, apart from dating someone, it will be very boring and challenging if we completely discount these men. These men are fun, they can make your day and make you smile. They make a great company. But, again, women always want more, even when they have been told time and again that the relationship is not on the table.

What is a woman to do? I give an alternative that will actually improve the quality of your love life and prepare you for the right man: that is, use these men as "laboratory rats" with whom you practice your feminine magnetism and your relationship skills with men.

Can you really control your emotions and not become addicted to these men? He can still become addicted if he is so good, but, again, he has no commitment to him in the same way that he has no commitment to you. So yes, have some at the same time! That way, you are not involuntarily hooked to anyone in particular. I hope you have some of the ones you like alike, who also love you.

You will learn a lot from these men.

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